Good article but sadly the Bible does say we can grab them by their pussy.
I hope it is ok to provide this link.
https://medium.com/@patim888/is-god-really-moral-good-you-decide-42549d271274
Written by Tim Zeak
Formerly an evangelical who read the Bible from cover to cover a dozen times and finally was able to shake my childhood indoctrination of hell fire & brimstone.